Don’t be an old man.
Despite your job as a dad and the advancing ravages of age, you have the advantage of being not dead, probably! The bachelor party very much represents a night out, and you still get those. It’s perfectly acceptable to have a night to yourself. That said…
For the sweet love of God, don’t be a young man.
Don’t say “bruh.”
That was a test. If you didn’t recoil in instant horror, we’re going to have problems.
Your kids are adorable/good at baseball/excelling in dance. Nobody cares.
You are raising sharp, smart people who will grow up to shape the world, but unless you’re hanging out with members of the neighborhood dad’s group, this is not the time to tout their accomplishments or show off your photo skills. If you hear yourself talking about travel soccer to someone without kids, punch yourself in the gut for us. Nobody here has any idea what a PJ Masks is. I have two children, and I barely know.
It’s no longer acceptable to fall down in a drainage ditch.
Well, it was never acceptable, but there was a time when you probably didn’t care. While there is theoretically a roguish charm to getting blackout drunk and gambling/getting into a bar fight/line dancing, such activities get questionable pretty fast when you have a family. Also keep in mind that your formerly Viking-level tolerance has most likely atrophied due to years of relative inaction.
Under no circumstances should you get tattoos.
You’re too old, and those parts have probably begun to sag.
Kindly remember that over the course of the night your dumb face will be captured by approximately 45,000 cameras.
Depending on your age, you may or may not have had to deal with bachelor parties in the age of Every Idiot Documenting Everything All the Time Always! And odds are good that someone in your party maintains a weirdly lively social media presence for some reason. And while you hopefully make friends who are hip enough to resist posting your activities on Instagram, and while you hopefully quit Facebook like six months ago, there are still a lot of phones to contend with.
You might be the old one.
And this means you can’t act like one of the young ones. Many people are probably looking mostly at the young ones instead of you. This is a reality now, and not one that can be addressed by any degree of tequila shots, break dancing, or collar popping. Stay in your lane, and things should be fine. Get out of your lane, and things could get pretty weird, bruh.
